The reason my relationship ended
We grew apart, had nothing in common, or fell out of love
My ex left me without wanting to work through our problems
I was left heartbroken for reasons beyond my control
Had enough of toxic behaviour, arguments and drama
How do you feel presently about future relationships?
Hopeful I’ll meet someone who values me more than my previous partner
I don't need someone in my life, but if the right person came along I would be open
I keep a lot of walls up to protect myself but I don’t want to be alone forever
I am 100% ready, I have worked to heal from pains
What are your experiences with heartbreak?
My partner broke my heart by their behaviour or the way they treated me
I was heartbroken losing someone I loved or being rejected
I’ve never been heartbroken when a relationship has ended
I have broken someone's heart and experienced guilt and pain for hurting them
What doubts or fears come to your mind when thinking about future relationships?
I feel there is a strong possibility I will be let down in a relationship or attract the wrong person
I fear losing my independence and freedom
Repeating some pattern of being lied to, treated poorly, and undervalued which affected my self-worth
Not finding the right person to give my love to
When it comes to trust, what best describes your experiences ?
Previous partners have betrayed me, broken promises, or lied to me
Trusting my choices and attracting the wrong person
I’ve never had a reason not to trust myself or others
There have been times I have felt jealous or suspicious and didn’t 100% trust my partner
How have you managed break-ups?
I have mostly initiated break-ups due to conflicting values, betrayal, or poor behavior
I don’t easily end a relationship and have stayed longer than I should have trying to fix them
Mutually agreeing it is not working
I didn’t make the decision but I’m glad they did
Reflecting on past relationships
You accept your relationship is over, but sometimes find it hard to believe you’ll ever meet anyone as good as your ex
I finally feel free to be happy and wish you hadn’t wasted so much time on the wrong person
I wished it didn’t hurt as much initially but knew it was for the best
Didn’t find it too hard, I can disconnect and move forward leaving the past behind
My current situation
I’m completely happy on my own, it would have to be a truly special person for me to commit
I feel I am unlucky in love and don’t seem to meet the right people-- if it is meant to be it will happen
I want to be in a relationship and spend time & energy trying to find the right person
As much as I keep busy, I do feel something is missing from my life
My challenge in connecting
I’m looking for a partner who ticks most of my boxes
I often meet great people but one or two critical points are always missing
I don't want to have to change for anyone. I just want to be loved for me
Sometimes I think it's all too hard and I resign myself to being alone
How does time impact you?
I’m just too busy to find the time to meet new people
I have time to date but find many people don’t give me their time
Dating can seem like a chore but I try to make time for it as much as I can
I often find dating in general to be a waste of time so unless someone ticks most of my boxes, I don’t bother
Dating experiences and attitudes
I find people are not very honest and don’t put in the effort
The process of dating isn't hard but most often doesn’t amount to more than the friendzone
I don’t actively go looking for dates but would say yes if someone asked
I have fun and date actively but rarely meet anyone I’m actually interested in
Past love and relationships
I’ve fallen in love deeply and want that feeling again
I don’t think I have ever truly been in love but I’d like to
I’d never want to repeat my past
If I could have a do over there is a past love I’d do differently
Confidence, self-esteem, and attitude
I would not allow a partner to treat me poorly ever again
I am very easy going and happy for my partner to take the lead
I live my life without caring too much about what other people think of me
It's important to leave a good impression, it bothers me when people judge me wrongly.
Reaction to rejection
When someone ghosts me or ignores me I feel disrespected/upset I’d, rather they tell me
I have no problem being rejected online but I struggle with face to face rejection
When I get rejected or ghosted it doesn’t hurt my feelings I respect their decision
I have been rejected so many times it's hard to put myself out there
I feel most people don’t take time to get to know the real me, they judge on physical attraction
I’d rather put myself out there and get hurt than look back with regret
Nothing ever works until you meet the right person
In a relationship both people should work at making each other happy
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